الشيخ:العثيمين رحمه الله

Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy on him, mentioned:

🚬 أولاً: يجب على هذا الذي له أب وإخوان يشربون الدخان إذا ذهب إليهم أن ينصحهم ويعظهم ويرشدهم ويبين لهم مضار الدخان الدينية والجسمية والمالية.

Firstly: It is obligatory upon the one who has a father or brothers who smoke that when he goes to them, he advises, admonishes, directs them and clarifies to them the religious, bodily, and financial harms of smoking.

1⃣ فإن انتهوا فهذا المطلوب،

If they stop, then this is something desired

2⃣ وإن لم ينتهوا فعليه أن يصلهم

If they don’t stop, then you should still connect ties of kinship with them

🚬 لكن إذا كانوا يشربون أمامه فإنهم إذا شرعوا في الشرب يجب عليه أن يقوم من مكانه؛

But if they are (going to) smoke in front of him, if they are about to start smoking, then it is obligatory upon him that he leaves from this place.

🚬 لأنه لا يجوز للإنسان أن يجلس مع أهل المعصية إلا إذا كان يرغب أن يناله ما ينالهم من العقوبة.

Because it is not permissible for a person to sit with the people of sins except if he desires to attain that which they will attain of punishment!

🚬السائل: حتى لو كان والده يقول له جلس.

The questioner:

Even if it be his father and he tells him to sit?

الشيخ:

The shaykh:

ولو كان والده.

الوالد لا يطاع في معصية الله،

Even if it be his father. The father isn’t obeyed in the disobedience of Allah.

كما قال عز وجل:
﴿ وَوَصَّيْنَا الْأِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْناً عَلَى وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ * وَإِنْ جَاهَدَاكَ عَلَى أَنْ تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلا تُطِعْهُمَا﴾ [لقمان:14-15].

As Allah says:

And We have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination.

But if they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.

[31:14-15]

المصدر: سلسلة لقاءات الباب المفتوح > لقاء الباب المفتوح [151]للعلامة ابن عثيمين.

Translated by

Majid Jawed Al-Afghanee
Abu Layl