Regarding what the arabs usually do by performing certain movements out of play and joy when carrying their guns or spears at weddings or at certain celebrations, then this is permissible as been stated by the scholars.

The Hadeeth:

عَنْ أَنَسٍ، قَالَ لَمَّا قَدِمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم الْمَدِينَةَ لَعِبَتِ الْحَبَشَةُ لِقُدُومِهِ فَرَحًا بِذَلِكَ لَعِبُوا بِحِرَابِهِمْ ‏.‏

Narrated Anas ibn Malik:

When the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came to Medina, the Abyssinians played for his coming out of joy; they played with spears.

Reported by Abu Dawud and others. Graded saheeh by Shaykh Albany rahimahullah.

The Hadeeth:

َقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ رَأَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَسْتُرُنِي، وَأَنَا أَنْظُرُ إِلَى الْحَبَشَةِ، وَهُمْ يَلْعَبُونَ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ فَزَجَرَهُمْ ‏{‏عُمَرُ‏}‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏”‏ دَعْهُمْ أَمْنًا بَنِي أَرْفَدَةَ ‏”‏‏.‏ يَعْنِي مِنَ الأَمْنِ‏.‏

Aisha narrated, “I was being screened by the Prophet (ﷺ) while I was watching the Ethiopians playing in the Mosque. `Umar rebuked them, but the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Leave them, O Bani Arfida! Play, [for] you are safe.”

Reported by al-Bukhaari.

Note: This should be without the usage of drums for the men.

Mentioned by

AbdulFattaah Bin Uthman
Abu Fajr